today living in hong kong, i got an intresting proposition with my job to move to Bangkok.
while my gf who just found a job here , ll have to quit her job again to flw me ..on top of this she do not like Asian countries too much and would really like to go back to europe asap.
i wonder if Bangkok is the right city to go when your couple is having difficult time.
i can try to limit the period to 12 months but i am not even sure that we ll go trought.
is there any area in Bangkok ,where i can look for a flat, and she could not feel homeseek.? budget usd 2300/m.
I think you just have to decide how you feel about things. The questions to be asking are:
1) If you don't go, will you resent your girlfriend? Will you resent her so much that yyou will fall out of love with her? Do you love her enough to stay in HK? Do you think she should love you enough to go with you? Do you need a more supportive and flexible partner who is willing to put herself second to your careeer? There are many women who will do this because they think travelling is fun and exciting. If you think that the future will involve a lot of moving around, this woman is not the one for you.
2) Do you need a more supportive girlfriend or should you just be single right now?
3) If you want a wife and children, can you wait and find someone else?
4) Are you willing to go to Europe? If not, I think you and she might need to go separate ways.
5) If she stays in Hong Kong and you go, do you think the 2 of you could manage visit and to stay together?
Good luck and God bless!